Hair problem, I request you all to answer, please.............?

Alright, about six months ago I changed my hairstyle, before I used to make side partitions, but now I give my hair, a partition from between. I've been oiling my hair regularly, everyday, using coconut oil.(as I initially though this might solve my prob.) But my hair is kinda FLYING, its just not sitting. While it's wet, it's O.k, but as soon it it gets dry, it starts flying, an coming on my forehead. Oil just dries my hair even more, and on touching makes it feel greasy. I tried using gel, but it didn't help, my hair became like a broom, and leaving it just the way it is, is just not the solution.

NOTHING actually is working, not even a bit, and as far as switching back to my old style is concerned, well that is just out of question, as my hair just doesn't get partitioned like that anymore. Also, how should I grow my hair long, so that it can go on the back side, like John Abraham, or Dhoni....plz. help.

Hair problem, I request you all to answer, please.............?

What you'll want to do is get some hair enrichment shampoos and moisturizing conditioners.

These will make your hair less frizzly.

Hair problem, I request you all to answer, please.............?

When you say "flying",I'm not quite sure what you mean,but I'm guessing ther's bits at the top that fly up and I can help you with that

1. At night,wash your hair with shampoo and conditioner in the shower standing up,not the bath..Whilst you've got the conditioner on brush and then comb.

2.Wash conditioner out and comb while still in shower.

3.Leave your hair down and wet and DON'T put it in one of those terrible turban towels that people seem accustomed to using.

4.After 15 mins dry on the lowest setting with your hairdryer until relitively dry.

5.Put the tiniest weeniest amount of hair wax in the microwave for 10 seconds,rub between your fingers and massage on to the top of your head.

6.Dry hair with dryer again,brush through ,put in ponytail for 15 mins let down and swish it about.

7.Go to bed.

8.In the morning,according to my calculations,your hair should not "fly" as you so put it.